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    lhen_onyx Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 3, 2010, 06:18 PM
    Long lost love
    Hi, I had my first boyfriend 13 years ago. Our relationship lasts for 5 years, we broke up because of.. over-familiarity.. I guess? We started when I was 15 and he's 17.. He was very possessive during that time and I was very neglected. So I was the one who broke up with him. I never ever realized myself until one day I tried to bring back our relationship 1 year after we broke up. But, I just hurt him again. I am now a single mom with my 7 year old son. I never ever thought of him from the day we broke up, even after I went through the most depressed story of my life. I even had 2 boyfriends after him. But he was very thoughtful and never changed the way he has been to me. He never missed greeting me on my birthday, new years and holiday. Keep on viewing my friendster account. But all of those was never appreciated until last year of a reason which I don't know. Now... I feel like I want him back!! But he have a girlfriend for I guess 5 or more years. Of course I never wanted to hurt someone, but why does he keep on texting me? Not everyday but in timely manner that I am updated. I heard a news that he cheated his girlfriend twice, which he never did to me. Or I guess I was just lucky enough that I get the best of him? Should I do something to win him back and hurt his girlfriend? What should I do? I have a feeling that he still love me.
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    Feb 3, 2010, 08:59 PM
    Whatever is going on in your life that has you thinking about a long lost love, deal with it, and leave him alone now.

    Look, we all look back and see what could have been if only.. and its only because your not happy now in the place your at, that you look back, instead of forward.

    Its one of the reasons people cheat because they are unhappy with what ever they are dealing with, and want to be happy.

    I suggest you find your happiness within yourself, and not expect someone else to be the reason why you're happy.

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