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    Rafikfred Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 9, 2007, 06:35 AM
    I lied
    Hey,

    My nae is Raph and I have a big issue in front of me. Well its not that big but I need help.

    I have been dating a girl for a month.

    I lied to her about an occasion ( I told her I was somewhere but I really wasnt) anyhow she found out that I lied and gave me the famouse line " we should be freinds" I hate that damn line... I want her back. Is it possible?
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    Jun 9, 2007, 07:56 AM
    Chances are you will not get her back. She found out you lies and so you have established yourself as a liar. She has nothing else to go on. She may well be thinking since you lied once, what is to stop you from lying again?

    Give her some time, maybe she will forgive you. Have you asked her to forgive you? Have you apologized? While she may forgive you, that does not mean she wants to get back into a relationship with you. So don't push her.
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    Jun 9, 2007, 08:04 AM
    Apologise and if she accepts fine, if not you still did the right thing and just move on.
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    Jun 9, 2007, 08:18 AM
    When we lie in a new relationship, we often burn bridges behind us and lose a lot of levels of trust.

    Why did you lie ?

    All you can do is tell her and hope you will accept you.
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    Jun 9, 2007, 09:14 AM
    Why do guys lie about stupid stuff like this? My boyfriend does it all the time and besides knowing that he is lying, I always find out somehow that he was lying in the first place. Why not just tell the truth and save a fight? And if you have to lie about where you are or what you are doing it is obviously wrong, so why do it? DUH guys!
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    Jun 9, 2007, 11:20 AM
    All I Have To Say Is That

    "i Am Afraid Of No-one, You Lie Cause You Are Afraid, If You Are Not Scared You Will Not Lie" -renee Guise

    Obviously You Were Afraid/scared Of The Outcome If She Knew.
    And Another Thing For You To Remember For Next Time...

    "if You Lie You Have To Wait To Be Caught Then Explain Why You Lied In The First Place And Then Tell The Truth, And Suffer Bad Consequences! Why Not Tell The Truth In The First Place And Save The Time" - Renee Guise
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