You don't make relationship decisions based on anything people say. Nothing other people say, and more importantly, nothing he says.
Relationship decisions are made solely off reality and observed actions. You can talk to him and talk to friends, but only what you observe yourself to be true can be considered "possibly" real.
Why did you break up? Whatever reason(s) that was, they still exist in most cases. You aren't the love of his life. That's another silly common thing people say that effectively means, "I know we aren't good together, but come back to me anyway so we can make each other miserable some more."
"The love of your life" isn't a dating term or a courting term, it's a title you bestow on someone you have already spent a lifetime sacrificing for and building up and making their life better... for decades.
All he meant is "I miss you and I want you back". That is all it meant. Everything that broke you two up the first time is most likely 100% still true, too.
Since you called this post "Lying Ex", then I can assume you also know not to bother with this.
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