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    Sep 27, 2010, 12:52 PM
    Know its not right but don't feel like I am worth better
    I ve been with this man for a while he makes out like its proper relationship between despite the fact that he hardly ever rings and if do see him its foir couple hours in hotel for sex. I deep down its casual but I can't stop thinking maybe that's all am worth. All men been like that in past, I haven't slept with them but cause always same type man I just feel like I should just settle with it cause its all am worth to man.
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    Sep 27, 2010, 01:27 PM


    If that's the way you feel, it's time to take a time out from men and work on yourself. Until you have more confidence and backbone, you will most likely not find a good relationship. How old are you? Are you in school? Do you work? What are some things you'd like to do for yourself? Concentrate on those things for now, not a man who doesn't treat you the way you want.
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    Sep 27, 2010, 03:48 PM

    Your worth as much as you think you are and right now that doesn't sound like much, because you let the guys run you down. Your solution is to leave them alone after you dump the loser/user you are with and start doing what you enjoy, and makes you happy without a guy in your life.

    Be single and free and explore the world, not the guys exploring you. Friends, family, and fun activities and start with what you really like.
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    Sep 27, 2010, 03:52 PM

    He is married silly! They are out there, DO NOT SETTLE! Please... if u are OK with casual... do your thing. If you want to settle, do it with someone who makes you smile, even when you are mad! Everyone is worth the love they envision!
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    Sep 29, 2010, 08:36 PM
    What the heck are u talking about.. you should never have to feel like this in your entire life... life and love is suppose to be this amazing adventerous experience.. not just sex, but a connection... maybe you need to stop having this casual sex.. just do you own thing, and love will find you, and when it does, everything else will follow..
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    Sep 30, 2010, 04:47 AM

    Sounds to me that he is using you for the sex. It's very well possible that he's married or at least has a girlfriend.

    You really need to respect yourself, because this fellow isn't showing any respect for you.

    A guy that cares about you and respects you would at the very least take you out on dates and would hang out with you in public... not just in a sleezy hotel room. DUMP HIM FAST!
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    Sep 30, 2010, 06:39 AM

    If you go into a store to brows and you happen to come across couple of items caught your eye, and you check the price tags, one tags is very costly and the other item is very similar but doesn't cost a dime, of course your going to take the free item because you didn't have to INVEST anything!
    If you continue to put yourself out there for free, meaning you aren't expecting them to invest any of them time,emotions,etc then that is the only kind of man your going to get. You know the ones who won't give proper Respect, but heck you don't even give yourself that.
    Don't you think its time to concentrate on yourself. Maybe get some counceling to help you find out why you think so little of yourself that you accept so little from others. Try doing something's that you have secretly always wanted to do, but felt to scared to do. Maybe try out for a play,or take a karate class,or go out and volunteer for a woman's shelter!! Remember you can do ANYTHING, but you have to take the first step! Good luck
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