She girls frind is a cutter and I want her to. And she will only do it if something happends to her like her grandmother or her mom talk to her. Anyway she was doing really good for about 2 months and then the other day she did it again and she wants to stop she jusat needs help and she has been in out patient fro the last few days and sghe has been there bfore so I just need some help and how I can help her stop and how to take her mind off it. Thanks for all that respond

If out patient did not help the next thing is in-patient. Glad you are so concerned but you will not be able to "talk her out" of this self-distructive behavior. It is very deeply seated.

But she has been in in-patint before and that just made things worst becuaase she hates doctors because she was abused by a doctor