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    Msantana18 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 1, 2013, 12:09 AM
    Kisses me then has sex with his ex
    There's this boy that acts like he likes me a whole lot and says the cutest things to me and kisses me very passionately and I can't help but fall in love with him but I found out he had sex over the weekend with his ex on her birthday... He has kissed me several times since then and suggested having sex with me... Is he playing me? Or am I just tripping for no reason?
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    MsSaraB Posts: 15, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 1, 2013, 12:27 AM
    Sounds like to me he's not as deeply involved emotionally with you as you are with him. If he was he wouldn't have had relations with his ex.

    Let your feelings be clear to him what it is that you want from him, you need to make them clear in order to avoid any future guessing/mind games.

    Good luck!
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    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,304, Reputation: 7692

    Oct 1, 2013, 02:07 AM
    So he will later have sex with you, and then have sex with ex... or maybe go have sex with ex and come have sex with you next. He is not committed and is just enjoying women and sex at this time.
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    Oct 1, 2013, 05:56 PM
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    talaniman Posts: 54,250, Reputation: 10853

    Oct 2, 2013, 01:50 PM
    Why are you even allowing yourself to be treated like just another slut? Is that the best you can do for yourself? Dump him and get a guy who is just for you and nobody else. No telling who else he is having sex with besides the ex.
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    Oct 3, 2013, 02:08 AM
    Heeeelll no. Ditch the loser. Seriously, I don't care HOW sweet or nice or "passionate" he seems to be with you, run away as fast as you can and do not look back, I don't care how cute or appealing he is. He's manipulative and shady and he's not going to magically start treating you right if you have sex with him. Just don't waste your time on this guy. Trust me, you're just going to get hurt and be disappointed. He may seem super sweet and nice and may be the hottest guy around and maybe you get the craziest butterflies when he's around you, but IT'S A TRAP. It's a trap that is going to make you feel like an idiot if you fall for it, and it's going to totally mess with your self-esteem. So don't fall for it. Tell him it was great knowing him, and move on. There are way better guys out there who aren't going to go behind your back like that.

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