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    I kicked him out, is it over?

    Asked Oct 27, 2011, 02:51 PM 3 Answers
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    4 days ago I kicked my boyfriend of a couple of months out of my house (we knew each other longer). As he was leaving I begged him not to go, like just stay, we can work this out. The argument was stupid. He came home late and drunk, and wanted us to go out again at 1 in the morning. I said I was tired, he said he was going by himself, so I said get out.

    Long story short, the next morning I called him, he call me back, and said he at his grandmas he will call me back, never did. I called him like 20 time texted him apologizing that I handled it wrong. No reply so later in the day I sent him a **** you text no reply after the **** you text. I sent an apology for text. I was just mad that he not answering.

    I love him and I want him back. Later on he send me text saying... I hurt him for the last time, that he helped me out. He saw something in us, so what are we doing? I send him another text saying I'm sorry I understand if he need space or want to end it just tell me yes or no. No reply. I call him he answer but didn't call from my phone he say he busy and he reached out to me already. I say what that mean just tell me if your done and I will leave you alone, he said he busy he will call me back.

    Is it over is he playing games? I decided not to call but its hard not to. I really love him don't want anyone else. Should I just move on? Its so early after breakup. We were happy before this breakup, really happy. How can it change that fast. HELP PLEASE! Men I would love your input...

    Last edited by talaniman; Nov 12, 2011 at 09:50 PM.
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    Fr_Chuck Posts: 80,989, Reputation: 7672

    Oct 27, 2011, 04:41 PM

    So what is worth saving ? He drinks, gets drunk, does not come home and will go out and party without you.

    Honestly sounds like he is single and you are the only one who things there is a relationship
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    sw33ts30 Posts: 3, Reputation: 3
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    Oct 29, 2011, 06:53 PM
    He may be avoiding you until he can figure out what he wants to do! He may be confused he wants to be with you but doesn't want to get hurt (imo guy feelings are stronger then females because they are taught to suppress them)

    So anyway just give him his space if you have an urge to call him text instead something nice and short... you also need to think about why you want him back,, is it because you don't want anyone else with him or is it because you truly care also are you willing to accept his drunkenness... not fair to him for you to be unsure!

    I'm actually in same boat I kicked b/f out (5yrs together) because of some annoying things he does and I'm not willing to accept but I want him back I told him we need a break but I want him in my life and we been okay since but not living together again at least not yet. I want him back because I don't want him with no one else (selfish) hopefully you can figure out what's best for you.
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    Aleighprettyme1 Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 12, 2011, 08:15 PM
    I don't want to sound harsh but you honestly did handle the situation wrong, sending a text like that won't help the situation, but I understand your position, you was trying to fix things but he wouldn't cooperate. So the best advice I can give you is if this guy really cares that little not to even try and fix things with you he's not worth it, if he really loves you he would have tried to fix things and not just ignore you.

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