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jenlord · Sep 7, 2009, 06:42 PM

Hi there... me and my girlfriend had been together for 2 years then we broke up and right after an year she came back to me again realizin that I'm the best man for her... she had about 4 guys in her past... and I just cudn't get over her past... then we had a breakup again... she said herself that she doesn't want me anymore and she said me not to call or text her anymore... now when I've went away... she called me a day earlier and wanted to speak to me.. but I just refused... because I just couuldn't forget the names she had called me.. could someone tell me please what does she really want from me? I'm sick of it.. she goes out and comes back in :/ *we were going to get engaged next year*

itried · Sep 7, 2009, 06:46 PM

She wants everything from you. No person can give EVERYTHING to another person. Because of this she breaks up with you to go and get other stuff from other dudes, then she comes back to you. She'll never be satisfied, and you'll wind up being the guy who always gets cheated on but takes the woman back. She needs to figure out what's most important for her. So do you.

friend4u178 · Sep 7, 2009, 07:02 PM

She's keeping you on a leash as a backup if needed , so you need to stop that by not allowing her to.

Don't answer any of her communications and she'll finally get the picture and get sick of trying.

liz28 · Sep 7, 2009, 07:32 PM

She keeps coming back because you keep on letting her back in. Sometimes you have to know when to let go even though the other person doesn't want to. It comes to a point when you get sick and tired of the games--so when are you going get tired and completely move on.

Btw, you have to learn that everyone has a past and nobody can't change their past. If you can'y accept someone past then you don't need to be with that person. There always going be a boyfriend before you so don't hold that over someone's head.

2cute4school · Sep 7, 2009, 07:38 PM

Dude move on. Honestly, it looks like she's made the relationship verbally abusive. That's taking it too far. BUT depending on what the fight was about. If it was something you did wrong and me and you know it was wrong than she's not the problem. But if it was something stupid then damn, seriously... keep on doing what you're doing and refuse anything from her. Its better now before it gets worse!

Sweet_Guy23 · Sep 8, 2009, 11:55 AM

The only reason she keeps coming back is for an ego boost... that all...

She knows that she can have you anytime she gets ready...

She's a loon dude... let her go...

And you guys are getting engaged next year... think it through...

I wish · Sep 8, 2009, 12:34 PM

Don't let her play around with your mind anymore. You broke up for a reason. Leave the past behind you and move forward with your life.

If she attempts to communicate with you anymore, just ignore her. Talking to her will just make you more confused and over-analyze all the little details.

amicon · Sep 8, 2009, 01:19 PM

Yes ignore her and stop this confusion.

talaniman · Sep 9, 2009, 11:46 AM

Its up to you to stop responding to her through NO CONTACT whatsoever. Ignore her and disappear from her life.

She will eventually get the message. Just stick to your guns, and don't be manipulated or worn down by her persistence.