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mth312 · Sep 4, 2011, 08:55 PM

I just got dumped... And I quote "i am not really sure which way I am going, and I don't want to string you along while I figure me out... It just lost something romantically... Not you. Me... I just don't know me right now"... I am absolutely heart broken... I can't be mad at her for this either, I really just don't know what to do... I know "move on"... But I loved this girl with all of my heart and want to remain close to her because I was just so much more happy and better to the rest of the world when I was with her... Anyone have any ideas for me?

Wondergirl · Sep 4, 2011, 09:07 PM

I'm so very sorry to hear this! May I ask your age, just because what I (we) will say will differ depending on if you are 13 or 34 or 87.

mth312 · Sep 5, 2011, 05:46 AM

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amicon · Sep 5, 2011, 07:38 AM

Your best option here is to go no contact-she dumped you,you don't wait around for anyone to change their minds-you move on with your own life,doing your own thing.

Heal from the break up-keep busy and don't look back.

talaniman · Sep 5, 2011, 12:00 PM

Break ups suck, but they happen. Accept it and leave her alone and build a life that makes you happy without her in it. It will get better if you do, and you will see better opportunities for romance once your broken heart has healed.

vanheart · Sep 5, 2011, 04:33 PM

Those lines are all typical & maybe true.
Designed to let you down easy.

We've all heard them.

But if you don't want to hear anymore. Go NC.
Don't beg, or try to get her back. That will only make you feel worse.

The sooner you go NC, let the dust settle & start learning how to live w/her, the sooner you can heal from this.

"I was just so much more happy and better to the rest of the world when I was with her"
Forget that. That's crazy talk.

Never let someone else define your worth.
You are better than that.

Sucks a$$, I know. But there's better days ahead.
You just have to be strong.