What can I do?

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Hi everyone,I need some advice... I fell head over heels a few months ago with a girl I knew 20 years ago,and caught up with again on Facebook.last June.. we had a great loving relationship.. for a few months... not one disagreement.. and she broke it off suddenly.. a few weeks ago.. her excuse was she.hadn't been out with anyone for 10 years after an abusive relationship.she just committed herself to bring her 2 boys up... now she tells me all she can offer me is a **** buddy relationship.. as she is so set in her ways being single with just the boys for so long.this really hurts me,as I love her so much.. im hanging on just in case it will change in the future.. what do you think I should do.. thankyou for any advice you can give me

She tried a relationship, decided she didn't want one but yet still wants you to hang around... move on man, find a woman that can fully commit to you. She wants to be single to mingle with who ever she wants with no strings attached and you will never have a say in it because of your "arrangment", meaning you will get hurt over and over because she WILL be sleeping with other men otherwise you would be exclusive .

Her feelings are not the same as yours, so if you can't go along with her program, leave her alone, and find someone who wants what you want. She was being honest, so be honest with yourself. Sorry.

If you are looking for anything more than what she relayed to you, move on. Unlike most of the questions and stories on here, she told you EXACTLY what she wanted. Either take it or leave it.