I want to know what I should do about this plonict friends zone I have ended up in.I have been friends with her for about 5 years now and the last two we have became close with what seems to be a speical bond.This makes it even harder the times I have brought up my deeper feelins about her with her she says things like,friends first witch I agree its been 5 years I am looking for 2nd.or you guys know ,the things girls come up with when there in thi situation.I have explaned to her how difficult it is for me to be with her and not BE WITH HER.She dos'nt understand why its hard for me probably be cuse boy emotions run wild in the begainning of a relationship and girl get more emotional after the sex part .We will stay over at my house all night in my room doing what ever and boy ,I get so work up that I can't think straght and I just want to bump jump and hump.We have been snuggeled up with each other while on the comp. I have given her many back rubs and I have slept in her bed many times but nthing ever farther then this.I believe I am good looking and fair.I am not needy nor am I uncofident I just know what I want andda dammit its this girl .So to sum all this up what do I do?get gid of every thing she has gave me and every thing in my mind about her aand forget and move on?stay friends with her and suffersexualy then too

All you need to do is be patient. Let her come to you. Her cuddling with you and letting you sleep in the same bed is more than friends anyway. It seems that she just needs some time but she is slowly getting to the same point you are at. She said "friends first" she never said "we are only friends". So just keep your mind open and if she means as much to you as you say not having sex would not be a problem. Don't rush her, she seems to be slowly making progress.

Good Luck!