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    Niesje Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 4, 2019, 06:28 PM
    I need insight on this
    think my coworker was trying to set me up, what do you guys think about this scenerio?
    I had a crush on my coworker and I told her about it she said she was okay with that. I hung out with her and then she later texted me to tell me how I creeped her out and then proceeded to spread rumours about me at work. I never responded to her and just ignored the rumors. A guy and a girl was recently investigated at this job for fraternization. I later found out that my crush is good friends with the girl who was under investigation and that she thought I snitched on them. Everyone at my job know that I am easily angered and now I think that my crush was trying to provoke me to act in an angry way towards her so I can get fired. What do you guys think?
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    Aug 5, 2019, 05:21 AM
    It doesn't matter what her intentions are. All that matter is how you deal with her and her office antics. I advise stay cool calm and collected and don't let others push you to act on impulse and anger. I will go further and suggest you do better to control that quick temper because if others know you are quick tempered then anyone can push your buttons rather easily, further making you a target for office antics my friend.

    I also advise strongly to not act on your work crushes in a company that fires people for fraternization.

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