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    xelise Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 23, 2013, 09:45 PM
    I'm really confused about this guy?
    This guy is a grade below me at school, so I've never spoken to him 'in real life'. But we have been talking online and things SEEM to be going really well... He always sounds so interested and flirty and really into me when we're talking online. Anyway here's some background:

    A couple of things that have happened between us:
    1. He looks at me at school all the time. Like, literally looks around to find me in a crowd. I sort of noticed it, and thought it was just me being too hopeful, but then my friends confirmed they saw it too, lol. It wasn't exactly stealthy.
    2. Once when I'd messaged him, he replied saying something along the lines of seeing me at school that day and how he was 'going to' say hi but my friends were there so he didn't.
    3. Whenever we talk, we always joke around and tease each other. We also have a lot in common.

    Negative things:
    1. The last time we talked (Friday night just passed) he said he would message me tomorrow. Tomorrow came and passed and he did not message me.
    2. I'm always the one to start the conversation. Always. (Apart from that ONE time he started the conversation, which leaves me feeling, 'why did he start it only one time? Sudden feeling of confidence or ?'

    Okay yeah I know it all sounds a bit stupid. I am very aware of this.
    I wouldn't care so much if I wasn't so damn confused! O_o

    Is he ACTUALLY into me, super duper shy, or just a liar who is giving me false hope? XD

    I just want to KNOW so I can chillax about this. Thank you!
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    Nov 23, 2013, 10:03 PM
    You really need to ask him and talk in person to get all your questions answered.

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