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    garry28 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 5, 2009, 06:43 AM
    I'm in love with her
    I've been seeing a girl 4 five months now and we are only friends but I'm falling in love with her and only know her first name how do I tell her I'm falling in love with her with out making a fool out of myself.I do miss her a lot when she is"nt around please help.garry28
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    Oct 5, 2009, 06:46 AM

    Well first, you need to find out how she sees you, a friend or more. Then you can adjust your game plan, if she sees you as just a friend, you may have to take a break for awhile, if she sees you as more, then you explain how you feel
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    Oct 5, 2009, 06:47 AM

    You could just ask her out on a date-no need to tell her about your feelings straight away.
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    Oct 5, 2009, 07:05 AM
    Gary, first, how old are you? Second, how well do you know this girl? Here you say that you have been seeing her as a friend for five months. Your other post says that you are trying to find her.

    Quote Originally Posted by garry28 View Post
    how do i find a girl that i met and only know her first name and date of birth please help cause im in love with her.thanks garry28
    I think you need to slow down and think things through. You say that you love her but you don't even know her last name or how to find her according to the other post.
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    Oct 5, 2009, 07:22 AM

    I could not rep you cat.

    To the op... you don't even know this girls last name,your in love with a fantasy,that you have built up around this girl...

    Look around is there someone else that your interested in who is available.
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    Dec 19, 2009, 06:09 AM
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    I've asked her out on a date but she told me she is shy what should I do should I just wait a bit longer help.garry28
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    Dec 19, 2009, 06:20 AM

    When you say seeing do you mean getting to know? How old are the two of you?
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    Dec 21, 2009, 04:41 AM

    Well I'm 29 and she is 27 we are friends at the moment I've have know her for five months but I want to go on a date with her but she told me she shy should I wait for abit longer then ask her again? garry28
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    Dec 21, 2009, 04:46 AM

    She is shy at 27, and your just friends now. Well if you hang out now with her, and go places, what is the difference? Ask her, flat out, does she feel the same, and if it could go anywhere? If not, look elsewhere.. Good luck.
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    Dec 21, 2009, 04:49 AM

    Sullys advice makes sense.
    Get a straight answer from her.
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    Dec 21, 2009, 06:10 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by garry28 View Post
    well im 29 and she is 27 we are friends at the moment ive have knw her for five months but i want to go on a date with her but she told me she shy should i wait for abit longer then ask her again?.garry28
    Something seems off. You had known her for five months in October. Have you learned her last name, yet?

    Please, use punctuation. I am having a small problem with determining where one sentence ends and another begins.
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    Dec 21, 2009, 10:03 AM
    You're friends but don't even know her last name? Dude friends find out small details like that and get to know each other so they do at least know who they are friends with. If she is to shy to hang out with you though, I would be asking why not?

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