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Tiify809 · Oct 25, 2012, 08:57 PM

Well let me start by I am 18 and my boyfriend is 22. We've been together for 5 months now. We met online, we Skype for a while and decided to meet up. Well it went amazing and I don't know if it was too fast but the day after we met up he asked me out and I said yes. Well he came and visited me like for a week straight. He told me that he had to leave for vacation to Colombia for a like a month in the beginning of our relationship and we had only knew each other for like a week or so. And he told me to wait for him and that he promised to be faithful while he was on vacation with he's family and he'll text me everyday and we would even Skype whenever he could. Well everything was great but when he came back from Colombia is like he was kind of different because it took me like a week to see him, he told me had to spend some time with his parents and he would be busy at work a lot so I understood. A week went by and we finally saw each other, it was amazing and 2 months went by and one day he wanted me to sleep over so I decided to spend the night for the first time at his house and I was a virgin until I slept over his house. I basically lost virginity to him, and he didn't force me or anything he asked me if I wanted to stop or not and I told him no. And so we continued. For some reason I felt happy because I had done this with someone I fell really hard for. Well after that we continued visiting each other every weekend or so, and like 2 months ago it just started getting weird because lately he'll have excuses that he can't visit me and I'll start seeing him like every 3 weeks or so. Like before he would answer my texts right away and now I would text him and most of the time and he'll ignore my texts. It would take him up to 9 hours to 2 days just to reply to a text and when I tell him I can go over he wouldn't reply. So I started not to text him to see if he'll text me and he would either not text me for about 4 days or I had to text him because it kills me not being able to speak to him. Well the last time I saw him he was basically telling me how much he misses me that he'll visit me more often he misses us cuddling together and for some reason I didn't believe a word he was telling me at all and he noticed that I was very upset with him. Well a week or so after I had seen him it was my birthday and he said he'll come over and visit me and I stayed up waiting for him and still to this day I haven't seen him since. He said that he didn't want to visit me empty handed but I could really care less about the presents I just anted to spend my birthday with my boyfriend. Well I text him a week ago saying what's going on and he was like I sorry I'm busy with my mom and work and I told him that's the thing he's always busy and that he misses me and I had asked him if he still feels the same way and he said yeah and all he could say was just sorry and I was like okay. So he told me he would come and visit me this weekend so I was like okay and guess what, I did not hear from him at all. Our conversations are so weird we don't have a normal conversation at all now and when I try to have a conversation with him he ignores it. I text him this past Tuesday saying what's going with him and if he's seeing someone else to tell me because I can't keep making excuses for someone who doesn't even try to come and see me even thou he knows I don't mind visiting him due to the fact he lives 15 minutes away. Well I had text him and he didn't reply at all and I really want to be with him but I don't know because he hasn't text me at all and today is Thursday and I want to know if its over or not and if so how should I approach to him at all or should I just let him go because its really hard. I don't even know if its over or not. Please help me I'm confused !

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