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hionlife · Dec 26, 2010, 10:41 AM

We met for the first time had a wonderful time it went from a simple lunch to her taking me to dinner that same day
We didn't want it to end lot of flirting back and forth
When I speak to someone I always look into their eyes and body language She kept saying how confident I am and said I was making her feel uncomfortable because I'm looking at her when she talks to me she keeps trying to find negative stuff about me
2nd date I made her dinner at her house and watched a movie together well it got late we slept together cuddled and just opened up to one another found out she has a hard time trusting men been cheated on twice and not treated well also wanting cosmetic things done to herself Im getting mixed signals 5days into it we were together 3days in a row now she's out of town with her family then asked if I had a problem if she cancels on me for new years because she wants to stay with her family I'm OK with that but didn't call me back when she said she was going to and then tells me not to make plans yet for her Birthday because she might be out of town I Don't KNOW I'm just going with the flow should I wait for her to call me back not do anything I asked her last time to call me after work she said the man should call ill be home at this time so I'm very confused sit back and see if she calls me again I hate games not into them

talaniman · Dec 26, 2010, 01:16 PM

OH, give her a break. What do you expect after a nice extended 3 day date. Chill out and entertain yourself and make some New years plans or whatever.

What part of

opened up to one another found out she has a hard time trusting men been cheated on twice and not treated well also wanting cosmetic things done to herself

Is it you didn't get, she isn't playing games, she has issues.

I'm getting mixed signals 5 days into it we were together 3days in a row

Those mixed signals where probably your disappointment that the date ended, and she had other options besides you for the holiday. Also she wants you to call her instead of her calling you after work. Plus, you know next to nothing about her character yet!

Do your own thing and call her later if you chose, but pay better attention, and don't get carried away by your own feelings. I get you are smitten, but don't get sloppy.

Its way to soon for that, or any type of commitment. Have fun getting to know who you are dealing with.

mygod9 · Dec 30, 2010, 01:48 AM

Just call! Is she takes offence, you don't want to be with the likes of her, confused and finicky.

NextRightThing · Jan 5, 2011, 02:14 PM

I've been through almost the same thing lately. Back and forth, up and down relationship like this. I know it's early, but clearly don't expect anything. The previous answer said that you don't know her character yet - exactly. You can't tell what she's thinking and never will. If she was really, really into you then you wouldn't be on here because you would know how she feels. Basically she doesn't know what she wants, and you're just along for the ride. Get off her carousel dude. I know all this sounds negative, but this is going nowhere for you and she has you on her strings... Go forth and move on before it's too late. You tried hard enough.