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Eswimmer · Oct 4, 2006, 03:08 PM

So, I am 15, and a girl in my grade is 14. She skipped a grade but I never would've known. I've liked her for, what people tell me is foolish, slightly over a year. We dated at one time, but with us both swimming (Different seasons) we weren't able to see each other enough, and broke it off. I've talked to her about it, and she has admitted to saying that she is afraid to date because we are so compatible that it may seem way to hard to break off when we do, or when we graduate. A formal is coming up this weekend, and I am wondering if, given the circumstances, if it would be horrible to kiss her or not? I know this is childish question, but I mean, I don't want to ruin what we have, and we both care about each other a bunch. Is it wrong to show how I/we feel, even if we aren't dating?

(please no replies of "just get over her") because I get enough of that, and I have tried dating other people, and I feel like I am cheating them because I don't have the same feelings for them as I do this particular girl...

Just looking for some outside input.

beautifuldiva · Oct 4, 2006, 03:31 PM

Hmmm if you are as close to her as you say... then I say go for the kiss... I mean OK u are still young and you never know what the future with her will hold.. and chances are you will prollly beat yourself up if you never take the chance to find out what could become of it. If you have nothing to loose, like it won't cost you yalls friendship, then why not?

Eswimmer · Oct 4, 2006, 03:51 PM

I suppose I really just needed affirmation of the decision to push me over the line. Thanks.

beautifuldiva · Oct 4, 2006, 03:55 PM

awe that's cool! Lol now I want to know how it turns out! Lol and whatever the outcome.. at least u will have peace of mind you know? And hopefully all will go well for you =)