Hi everyone, My ex left me a little over a month ago and I found out he was seeing this sluttish girl. Well I found out last week he moved in with her about 3-4 weeks ago. 2 days ago he started calling me. I didn't answer the phone so today I got a dozen roses delivered and on the card it read, I'm sorry for the mistakes I've made, being with her, living with her and breaking your heart. I love you so much but didn't realise it then. Please forgive me, and Please marry me.

OMG are you seriouse!!
Do not get back with him he'll think he can do it time and time again
Trust me I've given one to many chances and they just take advantage of it

But what if he's for real??

Wow, good for you... but do still want him back?
If he is really sincere and you still love him so much then try getting back together...

He left you and now this slut has probably been rooting around on him and he has realised she has another guy so he decides to run back to old reliable who is still waiting for him on hands and knees. He treated you like a dog and left , he had no feelings or took your feelings into consideration. I could underrstand if he needed some time to evaluate the relationship but to just hook up and move in with some girl , well if he really thought you were the one then he would not have gone to another. Dou you want to spend the rest of your life with a guy who chos se someone else over you then found out they wernt that great. His only coming baclk so he doesn't have to be on his own. She has probably been out rooting around and he only wants you back for security... If he did it once he will do it again. If he really wanted to marry you he wouldn't have done this in the first place...

My best friend did something like your ex. He was dating this wonderful girl, one I think he should have been with forever. But anyway, he was even more crazy than your ex. He went on a vacation for about two weeks, met some chick at a bar, "fell in love with her" and came back from his vacation and broke it off with the girl he should have stayed with. Anyway, all of us told him he was absolutely absurd. I still tell him that he let his wife get away and lost her forever.

Anyway, the girl he met while he was on vacation dumped him on NYE for some guy she met at a club or something. My best friend started dating the girl that he broke up with and they became a couple again. It ended in disaster two months later. He broke it off. His actions had made her so paranoid about his ability to stay faithful, she literally lost her mind worrying about if he would leave her again. Anyway, they finally broke up.

She has now happily moved on and is dating someone new who she may end up marrying. My best friend is single, and is definitely sad that he made that relationship go down the drain.

He is my best friend, but if I were a woman, I would never date him. He is selfish, clueless, and hurtful. But he is still my best friend, he is just flawed when it comes to relationships.

Your ex reminds me of my best friend. I'd move on. I don't think you'll ever be able to trust him fully again.

--Cali

One attorney, one marriage contract agreement, one wedding and maybe one happy couple. Be sure both parties sign the contract. Good luck.

I say leave him to his slut!

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Do you want him back? Who knows what he will bring back to you being he has been roaming for a while...

Hun he isn't for real his saying this beacause he wants you back!!
And he may be thinking if his really nice to you askes you to marry him you'd think he was being seriouse chances are yous get back together you'll never here that question and hill leave you again. Trust me they honestly think if they do it once they can do it again its like oh yeah cool she's taken me back I can do it again and she'll still take me back...

In the end can't hurt giving him another go. He may break your heart again. You may be just too scared to find some decent guy who will love you forever and not cheat on you. Why would he go on holidays and cheat will you ever trust him again!?

How hard will it be kowing he met another cjhick at a bar and could so easily toss you aside...

I think you will go back to him... WEAk...
All girls are weak get a spine and dump this jerk1!!

Even better get him back give him a night to remember. Get him over put on some sexy clothes give him a hughe blow job. Then in the morning get up and tell him YOUR not the one I want to marry its best if we go our own way, I deserve a better guy and I know I will find one! Br Build him up and then break his heart REVENGE is SWEET

He probably realized that the grass was not greener in the other yard, but I would not trust him to not go sniffing in another yard again. He blew it.
Look at it this way, not only did he leave you, but he moved in with the girl. This was not a little fling.
Take him back if you want, (I wouldn't) but if he strays again, you more or less told him he can and then come back if things don't work.

Saraspiel there is nothing wrong with a bit of revenge, you just need to lighten up. Hell she's thinking about taking him back after his been bending some HO over so she has no self respect anyway so she may as well do it...

Look at it this way he will come back and start bending her over and while there at it if she is taking this creep back why noit invite the other Ho over and he caan do both of them and then she may realise what kind of a jerk off she is going to spend her life with...

I agree with everyone on here.

What is to stop him from doing this again? Did he leave you for this other girl? How long were you two together? How old are both of you?

My guess is that he will be a "grass is greener" guy unless he seeks professional help to help him understand what is wrong with him that he cannot be satisfied with what he has. You realize that marriage does not stop people from cheating and if this is who he is then it will just a pattern.

You're showing your angry, bitter and twisted side mac. You've been hurt by women and you think the answer is games and revenge. It's a sad and lonely world if you live with that bitterness.

We all agree that he isn't worth getting back with, even you do, but there is no need to go on like that to the poster.

Revenge actually shows how weak you are mac. You are weak if you think revenge is worthwhile. And it shows what a loser you are with no life that you can't move onto, instead being hung up and angry with someone from the past. Get over it and move on!

Well i suppose i am a bit bitter on occasions i have every right to be sick of being walked on my these uncaring females, about time they get there own back. There all sweet and innocent when nothing goes right for them. Maybe she wasn't giving him enough satisfaction in the bedroom, im just trying to let her know where she may have gone wrong. He might like a biit more spiced up action which he got from the new ho.

All said and done she will ba taking him back im 99% sure of this. The poster came here asking for advice and has been toild on numerous occasions not to take hoim back but you are all wasting your time cause we all know she is going to take the jerk back... why doesn't she come back here oin a week times and let us know what is going on heel she may as well just tell us right now i reckon she has already takken him back. Id have my money on he willhave her pants around her anklles tonight! Where has the poster gone is this correct have you taken him back!!

Perhaps its you mac. If you keep getting walked on perhaps the problem is the women you choose. Perhaps you are too keen to choose a women who is quick to drop her panties for you instead of actually getting to know them.

OH MY GOD!! And that's all I have to say about that.