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Jul 5, 2012, 04:53 PM
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How to tell if my girlfriend wants to have no more sex no more
Me (18years) and my girlfreind (18years) have been dating for just over 3 years and known eatch other for 14 years. We both love eatch other very mutch I always treat her I take her to watch films, shopping, camping, meals, restaurants, and evan home made meals with romance.
We did not rush into sex we first took it slow we started oral for about 2-3 months in the relation ship and then had sex in the 4th month, we both really loved it and we both said it was it was really great. This was going on for about four months, 2-3 a week. Then the oral and the sex just stopped just like that we did not have sex for 4 weeks, so I sat down with her and speaked to her in a calm way. Later that day we had sex but this not sort the problem.
We then decided to get her on the pill because she did not want to be pregnant yet, at last I thoght I found the problem but I was wrong about 1 month after the she had the pill she does not want it at all, but when I try to speak to her she does not evan want to know. So then I spiced things up so I brought her a vibrater but that did not evan effect it we had sex about once every 2 months.
And know its just crumbled down, we have sex every 20 weeks now and we evan miss sex on our birthdays, valintines day and even new years eve.
About our sex.
We had sex in in diffferant postions and change all the time, we change oral sex and sex from time to time when she wants to and I can last a long time and I asked if there is anything she wants me to do and she's say no
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Jul 5, 2012, 04:58 PM
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[QUOTE=mckenzietee;3182595]me (18years) and my girlfreind (18years) have been dating for just over 3 years and known eatch other for 14 years. We both love eatch other very mutch I always treat her I take her to watch films, shopping, camping, meals, restaurants, and evan home made meals with romance.
We did not rush into sex we first took it slow we started oral for about 2-3 months in the relation ship and then had sex in the 4th month, we both really loved it and we both said it was it was really great. This was going on for about four months, 2-3 a week. Then the oral and the sex just stopped just like that we did not have sex for 4 weeks, so I sat down with her and speaked to her in a calm way. Later that day we had sex but this not sort the problem.
We then decided to get her on the pill because she did not want to be pregnant yet, at last I thoght I found the problem but I was wrong about 1 month after the she had the pill she does not want it at all, but when I try to speak to her she does not evan want to know. So then I spiced things up so I brought her a vibrater but that did not evan effect it we had sex about once every 2 months.
And know its just crumbled down, we have sex every 20 weeks now and we evan miss sex on our birthdays, valintines day and even new years eve.
About our sex.
We had sex in in diffferant postions and change all the time, we change oral sex and sex from time to time when she wants to and I can last a long time and I asked if there is anything she wants me to do and she's say no
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Jul 5, 2012, 05:29 PM
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Jul 5, 2012, 05:37 PM
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Talk to her about this. We can only guess why things have changed.
My thoughts, and this is strictly opinion, is that she's either no longer into your relationship, or realizes that she's too young to have a child, and doesn't want to take the risk. Either that or she doesn't enjoy sex.
Only she has the answer. Our guesses really won't help you. If you have a real relationship then you should be able to talk to each other about anything and everything. So ask her. If she refuses to tell you why, then end the relationship. If you can't communicate with each other, there's no relationship anyway.
Good luck.
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