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    War Wise1 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 12, 2008, 07:55 PM
    How to talk to girls
    I love a specific girl. Though every time I try to talk to her, I find myself fidgeting with discomfort and without enough confidence to say more than hello. How do I get confident talking to girls?
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    NorthernNiceGuy Posts: 238, Reputation: 75
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    Jun 12, 2008, 09:46 PM
    That's a tough one... One thing that has worked for me is that you should take them off that pedestal. They are just people, and are no more special than anybody else just because they are good looking. Talk to them like you would anyone you are trying to be friendly too.

    Think of what you would do in other situations...

    If you were to meet friends of friends, or new co-worker, what would you say to them to start a friendly conversation? Act the same way with these girls.

    Works for me anyway.
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    Alty Posts: 28,317, Reputation: 5972
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    Jun 12, 2008, 09:50 PM
    Just dive right in and be yourself, easy to say right, not so easy to do. You have to realize that she's probably just as nervous as you are. Start talking to her, ask how she's doing, what her interests are, the more you talk, the more confident you'll get.

    Remember, be yourself. :)
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    talaniman Posts: 54,327, Reputation: 10855

    Jun 13, 2008, 10:02 AM
    Talk to ones you don't like as well, and be friends and have fun. They are people too, and are as uncomfortable as you are.
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    puppy247 Posts: 6, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 20, 2008, 12:09 PM
    Well if a guy talks to me I like him to be friendly but not too up in my face. I don't mind if he's nervous because it makes me feel rather flattered that he likes me this much! Talk about everything you can think of i.e weather animals colours foods and smile! :) Best of luck!

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