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    Jun 3, 2012, 11:21 AM
    How to stop being so jealous and insecure
    I have been dating and living with my man for about 2 years now and well he is always on his phone and never acts like it's a big deal but it seems to me he is hiding something. When I ask him about it he says its none of my business and when I have gone through his phone its always stuff that I he should not be saying to his ex. They have 2 kids together and she left him so why are they still talking about stuff that they claim they don't want to do anymore. I caught him months ago saying he loved her but that was before we ever moved in together. Now he says he loves me and I should trust him but I have been burned before and I have trust issues because of it. He has only had one serious woman and that is his baby mama. So he has no idea how it feels to be cheated on. What should I do? I feel if I stay and see if things can get better I will only end up getting hurt in the long run.
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    Jun 3, 2012, 04:12 PM
    I was just cheated on by my fiancé who said so what if I hang out and talk to girls I can if I want to nothing will happen . I don't think it's a good idea for him to be txting his ex especially if he isn't letting u see what they talk about if this bothers u then tell him and if he doesn't stop then why does he say he loves u because if he loves u he won't do things that hurt you get out before u get hurt but that's my opinion I hope helped a little lol
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    Jun 3, 2012, 04:43 PM
    Again - this is impossible to understand the text speak (which is prohibited on AMHD) and the lack of punctuation.

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