I met this guy in Sept of 08 after a serious 3 year relationship of mine ended. He seemed so perfect, in every sense of the word. He told me he was single and that he really really liked me.
We moved pretty fast and started to see each other everyday after that. It was the best relationship I've ever been in. so I was extremely happy.

Then in nov I found out that he had a girlfriend when he met me, and cheated on her with me which ended their 2 year relationship. He stated that he was happy with me and that he was getting over her and wanted to work things out with me and not her.

So I agreed they could still talk as friends as long as he was honest with me.
However, over time I realized they hung out every day and talked all the time.

Then in Jan he broke up with me and stated that he had been talking to his ex more and more and they are going to get back together to make it work.

Well I was heartbroken!! I couldn't eat,sleep or laugh. I've never been that depressed before. Not even my 3 year relationship made me that depressed. I didn't have a friend to turn to and I just couldn't seem to live a happy life without him.

Of course when he came back, he promised me that he is staying for good, and that he wants to marry me, and father my future children. I was so happy but I told him the only way it would work is if he never talked to her again. He agreed.

Well two nights ago we were hanging out and he was texting a lot, so I glanced over to see what he was texting and it turned out to be his ex. Of course I got upset and heartbroken and realized he is nowhere close to getting over her. So I told him that I can't do this and that I wanted to break up unless he could convince me otherwise. He turned it around on me and made me feel like he had the ultimate choice of whether to make it up to me or leave.

Well he left the day before yesterday and I'm back where I was before. I'm terribly sad and lost and worst of all he left me for someone else that his family and him just adore.

How can I move on and get over him when he's all I think about? I have no friends that live here in tx so I feel helpless and not good enough! Any one with advise or comforting words would really help me during this heartbreaking time.

No contact and read the stickies at the top of this board, sadly, I could have called this, you were a rebound and he proved the age old expression, once a cheater always a cheater. Some people change, sadly he will not

Talaniman Rule- never take the word of A LYING CHEATER. Thats plain crazy.

The good news is if you make him disappear from your life, you can heal and be happy. I live in Texas, and there is a lot to do to keep yourself busy, as you build a life that you enjoy with people and activities that makes you happy.

The key word is get busy.