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Velvet Rose · Mar 9, 2013, 11:46 AM

This is my problem. He refused to understand my decision to stay away from him. He told my sister's friend that he won't let me go that easily. No matter how bad I treated him, he just keep on calling me. I changed my phone number several times now, but he will show up outside my house or my friend's house just to annoyed them so that they will give him my new number.

When I told him to let me go,he pretends like he don't even hear it. He even asked me to marry him. Last time he said that was last night. I told him if he still disturb me like that, I will transfer to another town, he said that he will find me no matter what. He still calls me honey even though I don't feel like it anymore.I tried to ignored him for 1 year and I thought it worked but unfortunately he never give up on me.

Why don't he just accept the fact that I am not that into him like I used to be? The worst part is he's married, he gave me lots of excuses why he still don't divorce her. He told me he's not happy with their marriage, long before he know me.That's why I want him to let me go but seem like he just so selfish. Don't know what else should I do to make him understand, sigh..

talaniman · Mar 9, 2013, 11:58 AM

Call a cop, and tell your friends to call a cop.

Velvet Rose · Mar 10, 2013, 10:42 AM

I told him I will do that as a last resort,but he's not afraid because he knows them.I meant most of the cop.Now I am still trying my best to stay away from him,I hope 1 day he will realize that I don't want to share a man with other woman.

odinn7 · Mar 10, 2013, 11:26 AM

Well, I would not only actually call the police but I would tell him that his wife is going to find out too.

Him knowing the police doesn't mean anything. You report him, you get a restraining order if it comes down to that, they pretty much need to follow through. To me it just sounds like an excuse... an empty threat that you just won't do. He probably figures the same thing.

talaniman · Mar 10, 2013, 11:31 AM

You still call a cop, whether he knows them or not to start a paper trail that can lead to someone besides the cops protecting YOUR rights. The phone call to dispatch a cop is the first step in protecting yourself and establishing you mean serious business.

You just keep sitting there b1tching about he is bothering you and see how that works out. How has it worked so far? He keeps doing it because you are unwilling to do the things to stop it, which makes YOU as responsible as he is. You enable him.