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    Nikithasharma Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 6, 2010, 11:24 PM
    How to make a guy realise he loves you
    I and this guy know each other since we both were working together and gradually we fell in love. But after some days he told me about a girl who likes him but he does not and she is forcing but later one day this girls calls me up n tell that I'm coming in between their relationship. But later the guy started to show more interest toward me and the girl left him. Now we both are in a relationship and we also got intimate many times. This guy use to always say he can't marry me because his parents won't agree since we both are from different religion... I thought as our relationship grows his mind will change but it did not.. But he loves me and relies on me for everything.. When he is sad he comes only to me and discusses about things. Recently he told me that because he had many bad relations he doesn't know what true love is... What should I do to make him realize that he can't stay without me.. Please let me know... I want to marry him..
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    Mar 7, 2010, 07:52 AM

    The other girl probably said the same thing, up until the time she left him alone because he wouldn't marry her.

    Its strange you say she was trying to force him, but you are doing the same thing, since he has said he CAN'T marry you, and doesn't know what love is. So your doing everything for someone who will not marry you, so stop

    Why buy the cow, when you get the milk free. Sorry, but you can't make someone marry you, by giving them all they need, and if you stopped, he would just get another female to give him "free milk"

    That's all he wants is "free milk" and sex.
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    Mar 7, 2010, 08:09 AM

    You can't make him love you. There are no magic spells or secret tricks that will make him suddenly feel for you the way you feel for him. Love doesn't work that way.

    I know it's hard to accept that he isn't madly in love with you and doesn't want to marry you. He's told you already that he won't marry you, but the pain you feel can be erased from your heart when you find someone who does love you back. Move on!
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    Mar 7, 2010, 08:11 AM

    Poor guy-so many bad relationships-could be because his exes realised he was using them,don't you think?

    He's playing you-dump him,he's not marriage material.

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