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    iriscubanita Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 28, 2006, 08:32 PM
    How to know my boyfriend really loves me
    OK well here I go with my story I think it will be kind off long but I need you guys help so please read everything

    OK will I like my boyfriend since the first time I saw him
    I met him in school on September 5 2006 I liked him since then
    At the beginning of the year they put us together in english and they put us in a group so we can get to know each other and all so I had the chance to talk to him and all so on September the 7 he asked me for my email I gave it to him a week later he asked me to out for a movie then a week after that he asked me out but before that his friend were all over me do you like him why don't u go out with him etc I was no leave me alone its none of you guys busyness and I said yes to him Its bing a month and one week we are together now and I love him He loves me too he show is a lot but like 3 weeks ago he never calls me in the weekends and like in the weekdays he calls me 3 days he doesn't ask me out in the weekends or anything in school his always so crazy about me he comes to my locker all the time and says nice stuff to me kisses me and when I'm mad and I life he comes and runs after me
    The thing I don't know is he really likes me or he is just playing around with me because I do love him and a lot
    The reason why I think he doesn't really like me is because OK I don't want to show off but every guy says I'm hot and beautiful and I always have a good sense of humour and all
    So he probably want's to be like I got her so I'm the lucky one and all he wants to show off
    One thing he is not hot he is cute and a nice guy and look at me I am crazy about him people tell me live him he is so not hot I always say no I love him and I don't care how he looks like or dresses like
    So do you guys think he does love me or not by the way I'm 15 and him to

    If I didn't put any, Is because I don't have time and I need answers right now
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    Oct 28, 2006, 08:40 PM
    Well, here's what you do, simply ask him some of the questions you had here. Ask him things like "do you love me", or "why don't you call on the weekends," etc, and here's what to look for, if he looks to the left or right, he's not telling the truth to what he says, if he can't look you in the eyes and answer any of your questions, he just wants you as a "trophy" someone to "show off" as you put it.
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    Oct 29, 2006, 04:07 PM
    So your talking about September this year?

    No he doesn't love you. And you don't love him. You don't know what love is. And you can't love someone after 1 month.

    He probably likes you but there is no way he loves loves you. Even if he tells you he does.

    You are young I think. Concentrate on school first.

    Just enjoy your youth and don't let guys get you so wound up. If you have fun and enjoy being yourself, smile, and work hard at school that will be much more attractive to any guy and your chances of them one day (years down the track for you) falling in love you will be greatly improved.
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    Oct 29, 2006, 06:13 PM
    That's a new one, you may be young, but it IS possible to be in love.
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    Oct 29, 2006, 07:03 PM
    Not saying it isn't.

    But it Isn't possible after 1 month.

    Read the post!
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    Oct 30, 2006, 05:49 AM
    Totally agree with Skell... Love is a huge emotion and comes in time, slowly slowly and you're getting to know one another.
    Often love is confused with lust. To me this is lust not love, mainly due to this being only after 1 month.
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    Oct 30, 2006, 05:57 AM
    that's a new one, you may be young, but it IS possible to be in love.
    Anything is possible, but in this case love is unlikely.

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