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    Mar 29, 2013, 01:26 PM
    How to get over my girlfriends past
    Hai I'm 23 n my girlfriend is also 23.we have been in relationship for past one year,she is my first girlfriend.we where happy till I came to know about her past life.she have said me before itself she had a boyfriend who have cheated her.but she never told they had a sex chat ,sending naked pics of her to him ,and they have gone for a movie once with friends.. I came to know all this from her personal diary ,that they where together for an year having sex chat in message, calls and skype.. her ex-boyfriend needs sex alone ,for an year he spoke only about sex how to her and told her to do masterbed and he did so every single day for an year and left her and went saying he don’t want her and went with some other girls,. first me and her where good friend later on she said she loves me ,now we are in good relationship, but I can't forget her past ,it brakes through my head ,I asked about this to her she said yes she did all this but she never been out with him alone she had meet her ex three time that also with her friends so nothing happened between them except talk in phone and skype in movie alone he had touched her nothing happened other then that she says, but now she loves me ,n she never wants to miss me so that she didn't say this thinks to me.. can I trust her ,I'm so confused weather she speaks truth now because I asked about this to her many time but she said no until I find out ,should I continue with her or not ? How can I forget her past life ? Can any one give me a solution.
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    Mar 29, 2013, 02:22 PM
    So that guy is from her past right!! So leave it there in the past cause as long as she's just with you now the past shouldn't matter if you love her let it go as long as she's just with you then don't keep bringing it up you are adult so act like one everyone has a past some people will share and others just want to for get it so if you ask her and she said no she only did that to protect your feelings so if she is faithfull and not cheating let her past go and make a future with her but bring up her past all the time will only cause you unnessary problems from today on never bring it up but if she cheats and lies to you from this day on then you have a problem so until that let the past be the past if you love her I am sure you have things in your past yku don't want to tell anyone so maybe she's not happy about her past she wants it to be over hope this helps I am a 48 year old hope you find what ylu are looking for just remember you are her future let it go before you become her past!!

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