I've been with this guy for almost 3 years now. About a month ago we got in a fight that ended with him breaking up with me. He ignored me for 4 days then agreed to meet up. We kind of started dating then got back together for a couple weeks. Then I pushed too much about other girls he talked to as friends. I was scared he'd leave me for one of them. Even though he kept reassuring me he loved me and only wanted me. So he didn't talk to me for 2 days and finally we met back up on Tuesday and decided to date again.Saturday we went to dinner and he offered to pay and then he kissed me goodbye and said we'd meet back up later and we went our separate ways. And I haven't heard from him since. I've tried asking if we're still together and saying I still feel like we are and am still going to try and hang out and talk to him. He still has some of my stuff and I have his stuff so I said I could go by and get my stuff and drop his off and he doesn't have to be there... his roommates could help. He won't tell me anything. Idk what to do or to think or how to get him to talk to me again?

I think it sounds like a good plan, go deliver his stuff and pick up your own.
It does sound like he's fed up with you, so give him space and focus on yourself.
This relationship is way to shaky to last, so go do your goodbyes and start focusing on your own life..

Well he won't even let me know when to do that. I'd think if he wanted to be done with me he'd tell me we aren't together when I asked or when I still said I consider us together. Or tell me how to get my stuff. That's why nothing makes sense to me. If you don't want me then tell me so I can move on. He always seems to come back this past month. But I just never know. I want to make things work more than anything. And of course to me him not saying we aren't together gives me hope.

I think you should ignore him don't call or text when a man think he still has a chance they will use it in the worst way all you know he moved on already and if it doesn't work with that girl he will run back to you so move on from drama its almost spring break have some fun

I know you want to fix things and stuff like that, but if you break up regularly then it's time to leave him and get your stuff with the help of his roomies, and deliver his!

It seems as if the issue starts with you. You need to get some self confidence and self esteem. So that you can beat the insecurities that you are having about your partner. It goes without saying that the relationship between you and this guy is over and that you need to move on. When you got the chance to be with him you screwed it up by being jealous and now you are paying the consecuences. That's fine, everyone learns those things at some point in their lives. Where is the love and the trust whenever you are being paranoid about him speaking with girl friends? Everyone is entitled to hang out with whoever it is they want to. The sooner you let this go the sooner you will start to heal, also, find someone that wants you back because this guy obviously has no interest in you. Finally, please don't use the clothes excuse to just see him again, if it is something that you cannot afford to lose, then yeah, get it back, but other than that go shopping to cheer yourself up and forget about this guy because nothing good has come and probably won't come out of this relationship.

Good luck,

Javi

I would stop wondering and waiting on him to do something, and just make up your mind to do the right thing for yourself. Makes no sense to be stuck on someone who isn't as stuck on you.