How to get my ex girlfriend back
Asked Jul 25, 2008, 09:06 AM
I met this woman in a cool way, we hit it off right away, loved all the same things, did things together, and she started to talk about how I was the one for her. 3 months in She shared some information with me about her past, stuf that isn't really that bad in hindsight, (although she did lie)but I took poorly. I couldn't get over it for about 2 or 3 weeks. For the next 3 months things were different. I tried my best to move past it, and on my part I did, but she couldn't help but have doubts. I am 35, she 32. I understand she wants to find the right person for her, as do I, but all indications are that we are perfect. She kept acting weird although in a sense she was getting more effectionate... until we had a "chat".. very peaceful, but I couldn't take it any more and said we're done. We have kept in contact, have hung out some, but she keeps me at bay. The truth is I am crazy about her, I'm not psychotic about it, but I still do some little things... leave flowers I've picked on her car, send cute txt messages... we went to the drive through (I tried to kiss her after but got denied.. ouch! ) we have lunch... and she seems as if she is coming around. I don't know if we are "friends", if she is trying to work through it to get back together... when I ask, (which was only once) she says "I don't want to talk about it". Anyone know what the hell is going on? Or what I should do? We are so great together.. and not in a gooey needy way... she acts like she is warming back up to me... but keeps her distance. It's driving me insane...