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    onebigsadface Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    May 7, 2012, 07:14 PM
    How to gain my girlfriends trust again?
    Well see we used to be best friends and she told me everything! But she stopped that because I told a few secrets awhile ago. She loves me she says all the time. It's just she says she trusts her girlfriend more then me with her secrets? I feel horrible and it's making me depressed and I can't stop thinking about it!

    I apologized and she just says that won't help me trust you! What do I do:( I won't tell anything else but she won't forgive me

    I mean she won't believe me***
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    May 8, 2012, 09:10 AM
    Sorry guy, you can do nothing but let it go and chalk it up to now that you know better, don't do it again. She may come around in her own time and in the meantime it's the consequences of your actions that you are now suffering.

    When you stop being mad at yourself, you will be a lot better at accepting your bad behavior is what changed things and you cannot make some one get over the hurt or forgive just because you want them too.

    Now leave her alone to heal. Quit being selfish, because it just to late to undo the damage, and you can't fix it!

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