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Komathi · Sep 8, 2012, 04:28 AM

I have been with my boyfriend for a year plus now. He is a very busy with his work most of the times. As a result, we don't spend much time together. We don't talk on the phone much but he meets me on his off days that he has. Recently, I started feeling neglected. At this point, I was invited to his house for a gathering and when I went there, he was very engaged with his family and relatives. I felt very lonely and this led me to start showing my emotions out. He realised and after the gathering, we went for a walk. He asked me why was I showing face and I told him how I felt. He was very unhappy that I am not being matured and I am not thinking of things from a different perspective. It made things difficult. He told me that he has no time for himself as he spend all his off days with me. He does not have his space. After this incident, things have changed a lot. He seems to want a break up but I am still trying to talk to him to give me a chance. I have really regretted a lot since this incident. However, he is not willing to give me the chance. I really love him and hope to work things out with him.

C0bra_M3nace · Sep 8, 2012, 08:15 AM

You're clearly not the kind of person who can handle a relationship with someone who works most of his time. You feel neglected but in reality you're being too needy for his type of lifestyle.

My question is, why are you so desperate to hold on when he's so willing to let go? It's apparent you're both not working, so why drag it on when you can be looking for someone who can spend time with you and give you the attention you so desire.