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guptaanuanushka · Mar 28, 2012, 04:07 PM

We are in relationship from 1 and half year. We went out for movies together and always keep on talking to each other on phone or messages. He always cared for me a lot and always remind every thing which I ever said to him. He never forgets any thing. Everything was so perfect in our relationship. We did all kind of talked about everything like sex and stuff . We had little bit of physical relation also like kissing, touching.

But for some career reason I have to leave the India and come to US for sometime. For 2-3 month everything was going on perfect. We try to talk to each other as much as possible. But now he just only want to talk about sex. If I am not interested in this then he doesn't talk at all.

Can any one help me with this relationship and tell me what I have to do and what he wants from me.

talaniman · Mar 28, 2012, 11:09 PM

He wants to have sex with you before you leave. He is afraid you will forget him, or meet some one better and dump him. Having sex is his way of making sure you don't forget him because that's what most guys think. Having sex with a virgin will make them theirs.

I think he needs something more solid by way of commitment, to reassure him to be in a long distance relationship, I mean he does need to know that waiting will be worth it.

How old are you both, and how long is this trip going to last?

guptaanuanushka · Mar 30, 2012, 11:28 AM

I am 24 and he is 26... this trip will last till November and I have already told him that I am coming back in November.
I try as much as I can, to talk to him but due to the distance and time difference, we are not able to talk that much that we are having before. May be that is the reason also for his insecurity. Can you also suggest me what else I can do to assure him that I love him and to know more about his feelings

guptaanuanushka · May 7, 2012, 02:26 PM

We are in relationship from last 1 year. Now I am in US up to Nov. for some official work and he is in India. When I was in India everything was working fine, he takes care for me a lot. He always remember my everything, everything was like perfect. But this long distance is creating the problem within our relationship. Now he just talks about the sex only some time he want to have some online and phone sex. And if I am not interested then he don't take about any other topic, but still tells me everything what I want to know like where he is going and with whom. He answer me to everything.
But one week before he told me that he is getting married to someone else. And he want to keep this relationship after his marriage also. But I came to know that he is not getting married, he just lied this to me. I am not getting why he is doing so. Whether he loves me or not.

mmresd · May 7, 2012, 03:39 PM

Doesn't sound like much love is in the air on this one. I would recommend to move on, he is playing games, and you are playing along. End it, find someone who makes you the priority, not someone who invites you to be the girl on the side.

Darkangelxx · May 7, 2012, 05:05 PM

I don't think he cares he just wants to play with your emotions, just forget about him get out of the relationship, and get out fast an go funds someone who won't lie an really cars about you

talaniman · May 7, 2012, 10:59 PM

What a lousy turn of events, and he is showing his true nature, and I hope you are paying attention. He manipulates you from a distance, to get what he wants, or he is a cheating dog, OR BOTH!