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    FallenROMEO Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 5, 2008, 07:41 PM
    How do I get her back or what should I do?
    We been together for 1 year and a half. Lived together for a year. I moved out the last 3 months of the relationship, things were getting hectic. Her parents made life hard and she had a child. She owned the house and I always felt like I was in her debt. I was saving so we could buy a house together. We got on very well, it was the best sex life we both have had. We laughed and had lots of fun but fought constantly about housework and gardening. I work long hours and just have no energy. She only works 3 days a week. When we broke up she didn't talk to me for 2 months. Then one night she called me when she was drunk we had sex, we been catching up and having sex for the last 2 months. But we only fight when I talk about getting back together. She says she doesn't want to because of her parents and the problems we had. She suffers from depression and always focus on the negatives. Yesterday she asked me to pick her up from a nightclub, she ended up hooking up wif another guy, lied to me about staying at a friends but she invited the guy back to hers and slept with him. We have such a good time when we're together and the sex is great. What do I do?
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    Nov 5, 2008, 07:49 PM

    So what your telling me..

    You're a Sex Toy.. Nothing more than a D... I... l.. d.. O

    How do I put this...

    Dont win her back! she is useing you for sex you muppet!.. and if you think a good relationship is based just on sex.. then you got so much to learn kiddo!

    Hey look at that. I did know how to put it.

    Oh yeah lets not forget that fact that she is also having sex with other people and has a kid and goes to night clubs!
    Ahh.. the level of class is impressive.. and she does not want to Cause her parents problems! Haha!
    Ohh my god she sounds like she has ENOUGH already. That was a load of B.S

    It's a good time to Dump the TRASH!
    Leave her alone for your own good!

    Do not be a complete moron and go back to her or have sex or any typ of contact with her again!
    And don't you dare try and defend her! If you reply with Ohh its not like that
    Or she has her reason
    Then Sod off with that.

    Honestly I have met and had so many girls like this.. I learnt the hard way
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    Nov 6, 2008, 05:56 AM

    Agree with the above post. NEVER let yourself get used. Ever. It just lowers yourself esteem even more, no matter how much you try and deny it. Move on and leave her in your dust. You need to save whatever self preservation you have left for another, REAL relationship.
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    Nov 6, 2008, 06:28 AM

    Have to spread it but Truefaith said it right, you are a sex toy when she can't bring home another guy to do it with. Leave her alone, life will be better that way
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    Nov 6, 2008, 11:36 AM

    Let her other sex toys pick her up from the clubs.
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    Nov 6, 2008, 11:42 AM

    I agree with everyone here. Don't sell yourself short. You're looking for a relationship and she's looking for sex. I agree with tal, let her other sex toys pick her up from the clubs.
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    Nov 6, 2008, 11:46 AM

    Simply put, you would be dumb to go back to her. She is using you for the sex!
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    Nov 6, 2008, 05:42 PM

    But its not just the sex, we share a really really deep bond and connect on such an intimate level I've never had before. We really know each other inside out.
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    Nov 6, 2008, 05:47 PM

    It sounds like she knows inside and out how to use you, mate. Don't do it. :(
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    Nov 6, 2008, 06:23 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by FallenROMEO View Post
    But its not just the sex, we share a really really deep bond and connect on such an intimate level i've never had before. We really know each other inside out.

    What made you write that? Did you have an air bubble form in your brain?

    Are you OK?
    Do you need help?

    I hope it was an Air bubble.
    Because if you was healthy and wrote that... after what she did to you.
    Then... WoW!
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    Nov 6, 2008, 06:46 PM

    Nah, wanted to say that its not just all about the sex that's all
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    Nov 6, 2008, 09:12 PM

    I hope not, but she shares with everyone apparently. Glad your patient enough to wait your turn.

    Take it for what it is, or change something. She likes it the way it is so now what?
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