So it all began on a road to forget the ex girlfriend, and next thing I knew I was feening to go to a strip club. There I encountered a beautiful Colombian bartender, and immediately I was attracted. It was her personality and drive to succeed since she's a college student was a turn on by itself. Anyway.. I wasn't interested in the strippers, just her, shell flirt tremendously with me but nothing would come out of it. Then the waitress began noticing me as well and she had a beautiful curvatious body and she had me intrigued. I began seeing her outside of work and we hit it off right away . The sex was amazin . But after that one time she acted differently towards me and we stopped talking. I still pursued the colombian bartender but we we were on rocky terms since my interest headed towards the waitress. While I was dating the waitress, I was also getting to know the another Italian bartender at the same club so after the whole mess , the Italian bartender and I was becoming friends. Now we had intense make out sessions that lead to nowhere and I began really liking her a lot. I'm pretty easy going person, but I'm also very persistent and I guess she felt I was only after sex. Anyway, we got into a dispute over some club drama, and I called her a miserable person. It really hit her bad , cause she admitted to it and said I made it worse... and she asked me to never speak to her again and forget I knew her. I really like her.. How do I get her to notice me again?

I have a saying... "Don't sh*t where you eat..."

You ever hear of that? Also, how often did you go to this strip club to hit it off with three different women? When you hook up with 2-3 different women from the SAME place of business, it is hard to convince someone you aren't just looking for sex... I mean, read your post... it reeks of sex, and you being a total womanizer...

I would go there once or twice a week!.

So... let me paint a picture for you. If you really like this girl, and this girl comes into your place of work a couple times a week, and you both seem to enjoy each other... then, you see this girl hook up with at least 2 other dudes THAT WORK WITH YOU... would you still be interested in said girl?? Or would you write her off as a total sl*t?

This is not a healthy way to get over your ex. It's like a relationship addict moving on to his next hit. You have to deal with your break up in healthier ways than strip clubs and working girls.

The entire post, all I kept think about was that movie "Forgetting Sarah Marshall"
"I bet you think strippers want to date you too"

KC is right, bad move on your part. If you like one, why stick it in another?

You go to a strip club, and get passed around by a few of the chicks, and now you want to go back to the one that started passing you around.

That's easy, throw around some more money.

Sooooo ummmmmm when can we go to the stripclub, I need to be your wingman.