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    Mar 27, 2011, 02:23 PM
    How do I cope with my boyfriend of 3 yrs cheating?
    I have been dating this guy for 2 going on 3 years and I made a fake Facebook page because I heard he was cheating on me, so I found out he was with this one chick I asked her and she admitted she was.. at first he lied then came clean and said he is just using her for money he say he never kissed or had intercourse with her and that he really love me. But I saw he made is status on Facebook in a relationship with her. I cried for 2days because I really love him. Should I stay with him or leave? Im confused because I don't take crap from anybody but him and I have been together since I was 7 months pregnant with my 2yr old daughter. Am I the one in the back looking stupid?
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    Mar 27, 2011, 02:33 PM

    Love doesn't have to be blind and stupid. No, I'm not calling you stupid, but think about it. You love him so you're thinking about accepting his actions. You believe him, or want to believe him, when he says that he didn't cheat. He did, not two ways about it.

    He obviously doesn't care very much about your relationship. He also doesn't give a damn about this other girl if what he told you is true and he's only using her.

    I've had people that hate me treat me better then he's treating you.

    You can either accept his lies, or you can walk away and find someone that will give you the respect and love you deserve.

    He doesn't love you, otherwise he wouldn't have done the things he's done.
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    Mar 27, 2011, 10:57 PM

    I suggest you stop taking crap from him,he cheats,he lies,he uses people for money-what a prince-NOT!

    Time to kick him to the curb and get your life back.
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    Mar 28, 2011, 07:41 AM
    Thank you both for your responses I took both of your advices and I am moving on. I changed my number and deleted my Facebook account so there is no way in any form he can contact me... of course we attend the same college, but I have changed my schedule so we will not bump into each other. 3 years will be hard to let go and my daughter loves him but I'm glad I'm getting rid of him while she is still young. Again, thank you
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    Mar 28, 2011, 08:03 AM

    Wise decision!
    I wish you the very best of luck.
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    Mar 28, 2011, 08:05 AM

    That's a good choice for you, and your daughter, and far from being stupid, you have shown brilliance.

    Good luck on a brighter future for you both.
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