How can I get over my resentment?

Froggie442 · Apr 5, 2007, 04:22 PM

My fiancé has a 16 year old son that he spends all his spare time with. Mind you, I am not jealous of the relationship they have... I think it's great that they have so many common interests (dirtbikes and such). The problem is, my fiancé always has time for his son, but when I want to do something with him, he's always tired or busy. Is it wrong of me to expect a little attention from my fiancé occasionally, or am I just being selfish?

msrene39360 · Apr 5, 2007, 07:25 PM

Originally Posted by Froggie442

My fiance has a 16 year old son that he spends all his spare time with. Mind you, I am not jealous of the relationship they have.... I think it's great that they have so many common interests (dirtbikes and such). The problem is, my fiance always has time for his son, but when I want to do something with him, he's always tired or busy. Is it wrong of me to expect a little attention from my fiance occasionally, or am I just being selfish?

He is tripping you need to get help both of you where is the boy's mother?

moon light · Apr 5, 2007, 07:42 PM

Yup... seems jelous.. but I think u need to balance it

U dun leave his son but show cares n do sth for his son.. .
Try to love his son
Then those ideas won't come to u again :)

talaniman · Apr 5, 2007, 10:02 PM

A man is supposed to always have time for his son. 16 is an important time for a father and son to bond as men. Talk to him but don't butt in. He will be all yours soon.