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cutie08 · Feb 19, 2008, 02:14 PM

OK so I had this friendi could go to him for pretty much anything and then one day feelings started to change for both of us and we ended up dating everythig was going OK and the things he said to me made me feel on top of the world and all then one day he ditched me for his ex and then brokeup with me telling me he thought he loved me but he was wrong he loved her and it killed me and it still does I can't go the day seeing him in school and passing him with no even a blink of an eye from him I miss him so so so much and he don't realize it at all. I'm not sure if its as much as him being a boyfriend that I miss reather than that best friend thing we used to have now we don't even talk or say two words to each other what should I do what should I say I just want him back so so much how can I make him jelous and come back to me?

lopsided · Feb 19, 2008, 02:21 PM

I wouldn't if I were you, if he can do that to you he isn't worth it. If you still think he is I would go with the no contact and act like you don't care, as that will make him realise. I've been in the situation where someone is crazy about you and believe me the pestering gets annoying and it pushes them further and further away. Its easier said than done but stay clear for a while, do stuff with mates, take your mind off him, you may move on you may not, but pestering is not the best policy as it will honestly annoy him even more.

talaniman · Feb 19, 2008, 03:27 PM

This is the whole story of all your other failed love affairs.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search...archid=2431685,

You already know the answer as you know that you can't change someone's mind. You should be working on you, instead of this jumping from guy to guy.

jolienoire · Feb 19, 2008, 03:29 PM

You can't make anyone do anything, Unfortanetly your relationship with him was a rebound, he was with you to keep his mind off the ex, and she came back and he dumped you. Secondly, he is not your friend, obviously.. you see that for yourself... Don't try to get him back, and don't become annoying... In fact don't try to get him jealous.. it will only make you look foolish... Let it go, and avoid contact... As the days go by you will begin to get over him... Just don't go out of your way to make him notice you, and as for him don't even worry about him... what comes around goes around...