Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    calibud831's Avatar
    calibud831 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Jul 12, 2009, 05:00 PM
    How to break up with someone
    How do you break up with your boyfriend after three years? And what do you say to them when you still love them?
    andystak's Avatar
    andystak Posts: 15, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #2

    Jul 12, 2009, 05:13 PM

    I'm confused. If you still love him, then why are you wanting to break up?

    People that are in successful relationships communicate and try to work on any problems they may have rather than walk away. I suppose you could go with the "I think we need a break" thing. God I hate that line, but any guy will know what that means including yours.

    Provide more details...
    liz28's Avatar
    liz28 Posts: 4,662, Reputation: 1034
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #3

    Jul 12, 2009, 05:42 PM

    Were not going make your job easier. If you don't want to be with him then be upfront with him about instead of prolonging a break-up.

    However, make sure this is something you want to do so you won't do something your regret. As mention above if you love him" why do you want to break-up with him"?

    Is the relationship unfitable or do you want to be free? Something had to spark what your considering doing.
    danielnoahsmommy's Avatar
    danielnoahsmommy Posts: 2,506, Reputation: 297
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #4

    Jul 12, 2009, 05:44 PM

    Do it like ripping off a band aid. Do it real quick. You know it is going to hurt.. but the pain will be over soon rather than taking forever and hurting just as long.
    Romefalls19's Avatar
    Romefalls19 Posts: 4,739, Reputation: 1130
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #5

    Jul 12, 2009, 06:50 PM

    "The past three years have been great but I no longer share the same passion and feelings for you as I once did. I still love you as a person, just not as my partner. I wish you well on your life journey but this is where our train makes it's final stop"

    It's not the best, but I have used a line similar to this.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Reasons girls break up vs. Why guys break up [ 12 Answers ]

Hello all: Having recently been broken up with my girlfriend and reading some of the posts on this site, I became curious as to why girls break up vs. why guys break up when there is really nothing wrong with the relationship (ie no fighting no obvious cheating, etc). I don't think its always...

Break/break-up : Not sure how things are left [ 7 Answers ]

I've been seeing a girl for a few months, unfortunately a lot of it is long distance (as I am at Uni away from home). It seemed to go really well, could talk for hours about anything, she told me that every minute with her was perfect, I was all she wanted, and she loved me so much... etc etc. I...

We're on a break but I don't want to. I don't know weather to break up with him or not. [ 3 Answers ]

So we've been going out for 2 months, and he cheated on me once a while ago because he's been having alcohol problems and became so drunk that he doesn't remember any of the night. But they only made out because I have many many sources. And he was so sorry he cried and everything and had a huge...

Girlfriend of year and half wants a break/break up [ 14 Answers ]

Hello everyone. This is my first time posting hopefully you guys can help me out here. I have been with the same girl for on off about 3 years now. The most recent time we have been going out has been a year and a half and now all of a sudden she wants a break/breakup. I guess I kind of saw...

View more questions Search