It sounds like this guy has some commitment issues. If it were me, I wouldn't give him another chance. Not only did he cheat on you and break you trust, but it sounds like he broke up with the other girl quickly too. It is normal to miss him and the good times you had together, but don't let being lonely cloud your judgement. This guy was dishonest with you. You have no reason to believe that he has changed. I would let it go. Don't waste your time or your emotions on someone who doesn't deserve it. You might miss out on a chance for a great relationship with someone else if you are too busy pinning away for him. Look for other people who interest you- ones who haven't cheated on people in the past. It is better to be single than to waste your time with someone who doesn't deserve you. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't tie yourself down with a loser! I hope this helps! Also, if he broke up with you and hasn't said anything about getting back together, asking him to go out with you again may make you look clingy, especially since he didn't treat you well. You deserve better! Good luck!
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