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swinnkam · Mar 28, 2007, 09:19 AM

Please somebody help me
It's looooong story. We dated in hs after the summer he graduated in 85 we never saw each other again. I loved him so much. He has been the only the good guy I my life. Well after 22 yrs he finds me and tells me that he has been thinking about me and looking for without much success.
So we talk for 2weeks on the internet and then I give him my cp number and her hasn't called me yet it has been 5days and no contact at all. He was telling that there were just some things that could not be discussed over email and IM. What do I do?
Should I email and just tell him to forget it. The problem is he has caused all the old feelings to come to the surface again. He does have kids but that is no big thing.
I'm not sure if he is still married. I need to know something
I'm going out of my mind.
Please help. He gives me the impression that he want to talk and then no contact.
What's up?:confused:

sheebsta · Mar 28, 2007, 09:45 AM

Hmm... well I think you're going a bit overboard... There are a TON of reasons as to why he might not have contacted you yet. 5 days isn't really a very long time.. I'd give him a few more days, and if he doesn't contact you first, you contact him and find out why. Maybe he's just nervous? After all, the impression you've given me is that he felt the same way about you as you did about him...
Bear in mind though, that 22 years is a long time, and that it IS possible that he might have moved on... Just give him time to get his head around having found you again after all these years... Talking on the phone is much more personal than using a computer... He may just need to get his head around it all. Good luck!

chuff · Mar 31, 2007, 09:48 PM

I don't know I find it strange that he supposedly spent all this time looking for you but hasn't called yet. If I spent 22 years looking for someone I might wait 5 minutes but not 5days.

Plus he says there are things he can't share with you at this time, so I'm inclined to believe there's someone else, married or not, I'd say there's someone else.

I think you should drop it and move forward.