Yo to whoever can help me with my problem... me and my ex broke up because I kiss a girl that I haven't seen in a wile and she said it was OK.. so we were going out but the next day she broke up with me so I was mad as hell but I got over it. I'm OK when noby talks about her or when I don't seee her. But when I do I'm like so broke down. What should I do I know what I did was wrong and I said sorry like 13 times. But she all ways says hi to me so what should I do??

Just because you said you were sorry 13 times doesn't mean anything. You should never of kissed another girl! Its called CHEATING! How would you of felt if she did that to you? Your lucky she even says HI to you...

The thing is that when you cheat, you have broken the trust that someone gave you. It's good that you know what you did was wrong and have apologized. But, you can't expect her to say "Hey, that makes it all ok". You hurt her feelings and she can't trust you now. You just have to learn from your mistake, move on, and promise yourself that you won't do something like that again.

Do you think of this as having cheated? From your post I'd think not but you said sorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry just to cover the bases but in doing so you lit a little fire in your girlfriends brain and she thought about it and little by little came to the conclusion that she had been betrayed. Doesn't mater what you think cause the ball's in her court so give some room, some space and don't drown her with a million words, sobs, grunts, promises, ultimatums, threats or tears and maybe things will work out in time.

This will be easy for you cause your not stupid and you had the guts to ask for help. Good luck.