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    Hitman Kennedy Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 24, 2014, 05:23 PM
    Help what should I do?
    Okay so basically there's this women that I would really love to meet and, would also like to pursue a relationship with her to see how far can we go with it. She lives and is from Los Angeles and I on the other hand is from Chicago, she is a model and is also good friends with a popular model name Draya Michele and this model is on a show call basketball wives, you guys can Google her to see what she looks like if you want. So anyway she did a interview with this magazine company and they asked her some questions about her love life, and in one of the interviews she said she was single and that she doesn't have a type and in the second one they asked was she currently seeing anybody and she said no then she said she hope a good guy would soon try to pursue her and I look at this as a opportunity to make a move fast.

    I'm a artist by the way I can draw anything that is put in front of me I started practicing at the age of 8 and I am proud of this talent so I made a plan to visit LA this up coming summer with two of my friends my other plan that I'm working on now is to get a big sheet of paper and draw a collage, of the different pictures she took and I will also throw in some of her model pictures to basically fill up the paper and draw some lips and to put candy lips some where in the middle I'm putting that because, she has these big lips but they is so beautiful and juicy and in one of the interviews she said as a kid she use to get teased about her lips but now it's like one of the sexiest thing about her. She even got her lips tattooed on her forearm as a symbol to her and, she wants to start her own jewelry line call candy lips so I wanted to throw all that I know of her into one picture and put it in a frame this is where it is so hard.

    This women is in her 20s almost hitting 30 and I'm only 18 and will be soon Turning 19 in April her birthday is in April too but I don't know what day, all I know is that I'm a Aries and she's a Taurus so about time I get in my 20s she will be in her 30s. The thing is when I meet her I have a feeling that she might ask what my age is and I have a feeling that I will lie saying that I'm in my 20s but I don't want to because I don't want to lie to her but I feel like if I tell the truth she will cut me off without even giving me a chance or to get to know me so what should I do?
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    Feb 24, 2014, 05:42 PM
    I moved this to Entertainers instead of a Relationship Board from Introductions (which is for introducing yourself to the members of AMHD) because this isn't about a relationship. This is about a fantasy based on an entertainer (yes, models are entertainers.)

    You have a very misguided view of what her world is like. Interviews are full of misinformation and designed to keep people interested in her and any projects she is involved in. This means she could have a dozen boyfriends and still say that she is single and looking. It is an act.

    You are young. You have a fantasy of what you think she is like and you want her to be. Let it go and concentrate on the females who are around you and available. I am certain there is someone closer to home who is a lot more suitable and ready to get to know you.
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    Feb 24, 2014, 06:31 PM
    First.. your chances of meeting her are exceptionally slim to begin with... second even if you have the odds of her wanting a relationship with you are even more remote, Remote enough it would like be worrying about getting hit by a meteor walking on the street. I mean you have zero in common even without the age differnce.

    So what you should do if find someone your own age group in your own area of the country... you at least have a chance there.
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    Feb 24, 2014, 07:42 PM
    You're living in a fantasy.
    If you approach her simply based on an interview, you will come across as a desperate loser at the very best, a psychotic stalker maybe at the worst. Live in the real world....Find a girl near you that shares your interests and who isn't some star.

    As a side note....a few years ago I read an interview with a fairly popular actress in which she was single and wasn't sure what kind of guy she would like to settle down with...3 months later she was getting married.
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    Feb 24, 2014, 11:25 PM
    I agree, many have pre made interviews that are done to make the largest group of the audience attracted. You would be one of 100s of more fans, and most likely no interest at all. Next you are based on physical appearance, not anything you really know about her. It is all a fantasy, I have a great fantasy about Janet Jackson, you have to understand, real and something really not probable.

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