I recently started dating a women whom I met from POF. We chatted for several days and decided to finally meet up in person. Our first date was awesome, and we spent the next month attached to the hip for the most part. I know this is never a good sign, but we had that rare immediate comfort and connection zone.

However, she did meet me at the worst time of my life as I am picking up the shattered remnants of my life after having lost all my assets and business. I'm also trying to adjust my lifestyle accordingly, which has not been easy. In addition, I also have legal complications due various businesses and IRS issues. None of these legal issues are criminal, just BS. Anyway, I have been under a lot of pressure and stress to say the least...

Out of the blue, she became cold and distant. I asked her what was wrong and she said she could not handle my angry and constant mood changes. I never disclosed all the legal issues and other problems I was facing, so she really had no idea what I was going through.

After some soul searching, I realized I had become a neurotic, anxiety riddled mess of a person, and totally opposite of my natural personality. She said she would give it a second chance once I cleared up some of these problems. We communicated regularly and often throughout our "cool off" period.

I went on Facebook one day to send her a joke, and I noticed her profile status was updated to in a relationship. Well, obviously I questioned her, and she said that they were just **** around and that if I wanted to know if she was seeing anyone to ask her and not assume anything.? So, this other guy is constantly writing stuff on her page with "I miss you", "I love you". So I kind of freaked out on her and she deleted me from her account. No big deal, because I didn't want to see that **** anyway. Well, she got upset with me, and we didn't see each other or talk for about two weeks.

I sent her a text message one day explaining all the stressors, my unknown toxic attitude, and apologized for attacking her via text message. Well, we were hanging out together within two hours. The night was great, and I could still see she cared about me because the "sparkle" was still in her eyes when we looked at each other.

Now, here is the strange part. I texted her, and got a response back from one of her children saying that she got a new phone and that was no longer her number or phone. I asked for them to forward my message.

A week and a half has gone by, and she has not called, or texted me her new number or anything. I then found her second account on Facebook, because I am still blocked on one, and sent her a message. She did not respond and I am really trying to figure out what is going on inside that head??

What is POF?

For whatever reason, she has decided that it is time to move on from you. Take it as a lesson learned. Get your head and your business straightened out then try the dating thing again.

It was fun for a month but she ain't that interested in you any more. So take the hint, and date someone else. Thats what she is doing. But you have been here before and should know better than stalk a female after she dumps you. Now disappear from her life.

You met her, you will meet others. Don't trip on this one.

Yeah, I am definitely not tripping out. If she cannot be honest with me than what is the point? Stalking?? I hardly think so. Not worth it.

I just wanted to get opinions on how something changed so rapidly.

What is going on inside that head?
Plain and simple mate; She's NOT THAT INTO YOU!

If a Ms. Sparkling arkling eyes has to change her phone number; I beg the question as to what's really going on here! Just get your bait and tackle together, find yourself another hip replacement without placing your toxins into the sea of love.

There's plenty of fish in the sea rolljeep. Just keep fishing.

She didn't change suddenly, she just decides to cut her loses and move on with other options. It happens all the time. Own up to your part in this by showing a poor side of yourself, and how you deal with your own stress.

But what's done is done, chalk it up, and do better next time is all.