She has just texted me , and has casually asked me a question about my work, and that is all, we split a week ago and she has texted me once before asking if I was OK and tell me she was thinking of me, I answered her then , said I will be fine and so will she and to keep going on the path she has chosen. I want to answer her now , but then again I don't want to.. I reallymiss and love her.. and feel bad for not answering her, but I don't want to go through this again, and I don't know if I could be just a friend, and watch her go about her life with others, ;( please help,

Stop reading her text, delete them wthout reading and ignore her. Only way to get over her.

I agree with this. I dated a girl like that once. We broke up, about a million times, then the last time we broke up she started on someone new right away. Then she came back to me, for a weekend, and then back to him. Life is a good teacher, I cut her off right after that and moved on. Started dating again, and as soon as she got wind of it she started texting and emailing me, telling me she made a huge mistake. That I was the one all along. I didn't bite, told her to concentrate on her current relationship and stop texting me. She didn't, so I changed my number. Believe me... you are better off without that pain in the .

Ty its hard. ;(