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    Gerald2013 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 15, 2013, 05:50 PM
    Help me out please!
    I have been dating this chic for over 5yrs and we broke up two months ago. We have a 3yr daughter and the problen was that she was so demanding especially when it comes to money issues. Since then I have never talked with her though she called me last week very late at night and she never uttered any word on phone.
    I had bought her a phone and had installed the tracking software and I've found that there is a guy they frequently communicate from the time I left. I so much loved this lady and I just wanted to give her time to understand me because we have been arguing every time . I need your advice because this thing is disturbing me badly and I need to move on. Thanks
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    Jul 15, 2013, 05:59 PM
    Giving her a phone to track her after you break up! Sounds like neither one of you know what love is. Since she is so demanding of money has she filed for child support?
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    Jul 15, 2013, 06:04 PM
    You've got issues. Giving her a phone so you can track her... issues.

    You're broken up, let it go.
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    Jul 15, 2013, 06:11 PM
    This was a year ago when I bought the phone and did so because I was suspicious. Im not 100% there is affair.
    Not yet demanded for the kid support

    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Giving her a phone to track her after you break up!? Sounds like neither one of you know what love is. Since she is so demanding of money has she filed for child support?
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    Jul 15, 2013, 06:15 PM
    So there's trust issues... this will cause failure in a relationship. If she is seeing someone else now, what's the difference? You've broken up.

    Again I say let it go and move on.
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    Jul 15, 2013, 06:16 PM
    So you were tracking her WHILE you were dating, I'd be done with that relationship too.
    So she hadn't filed for child support, doesn't sound too money hungry, have you filed for visitation?
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    Jul 15, 2013, 06:18 PM
    Whether a year or 2 months, what made you feel the need to track her? What signs made you worry she was cheating? And if she is as money hungry as you say I'd think she would have gone for child support by now

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