I'm sorry Russ
I know it has been a while since you posted that, but hopefully I can give some valuable advice.
First of all, I am not going to make accusations about what happened in this relationship. I wasn't there, and so it is not fair of me to say who was at fault. In my opinion and experience, it takes two to tango. It takes two to make it work and two to make it end.
If I were you, and if you haven't already, I would just go back and try to speak with her. Apologize for anything you might have done wrong, and just try to compromise with what to do next. This baby needs a loving mother and father with a solid relationship. I never lose hope on a relationship, so if you have it in your heart, try to make this one work, OK? Your post made it sound as though you have a genuine interest to have this woman back in your life.
Just take it one day at a time, sit down and talk maturely, and try to work it all out. If she is willing to listen, she might find it in her heart to open up to you. I am hoping that she does! Good luck with this relationship and with your future son/daughter.
If you need more advice, feel free to ask. I'll be here at some point.
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