I met this girl about 3 months ago, we quicly became good friends then on 20 march I asked her out, with a nice smile she said yes, we were felling good when we are togeder. On April 7th she had a really bad day at school, got pissed out at everything and she exploded, started crying and all, at night I went to see her and she said she loves me and everything but it would be better to remain friends only, and we broked up, the reason is just because she doesn't want a guy right now, I still love her and all, what can I do to make her fell better and get her back, because it ain't funny, if I don't get her back I might go until leaving from home or sucid*... so please some one help me get my girl back

First get a grip on real life, you are not going to be able to have every girl or every friend you want.

And killing yourself, that solves what problem? In love and life you will most likely find many loves at differetn levels for the next many years. My love from Jr High, my two or three loves from high school, Was able to marry my love from college who latter ran off with her boss from work.

My next love died and well get the idea. First at what I assume your age is, you don't really know what love is, you "love" but honestly true love grows over years, I call what you have being "in heat" sorry but just talking blunt, I know it hurts.

So why not just be her friend, she may really just not want a boyfriend at this time. And you can not ever MAKE someone love you,

You have to learn that time will help you get over these and one day it will be a memory that you will be writing on a site like this about one day.

HI,
I've been married now for 29 yrs to a wonderful woman. Love isn't something that happens in just 3 months! It could be "infatuation" or really liking her as a friend. Love takes time to develop. She isn't in love with you, and wants to think about things.
Your only choice is to just wait, and see if she changes her mind.
Meantime, try meeting other girls. Talking with others always helps. I do wish you the best, and good luck.

Hello freestyle, Not meaning to be harsh or cruel just truthful, Your solution to not having a certain girl as a girlfriend, to runaway or kill yourself is selfish. This is not love, only your way of getting what you want! A better way would be to care enough to talk to her and be a friend. This way you can find out how she feels and be there to help her through whatever is bothering her. She may not be ready for a boyfriend like you want to be now so you should understand and abide by her wishes. There is no way for you to get "your girl back" that is up to her! As another has said get a grip on your feeling and find a better way to deal with this situation.:cool:

What you're feeling is NOT love. Its lust, smitten.

You need to see a LOT of women before you find the right one.

Learn from this. Leave her alone.

You sound REALLY needy and desperate - not good. Not things a woman ever wants.

You BARELY know this girl. 2 weeks is nothing. You can't love someone after 2 weeks. To put it time - generally you don't know if you love someone until about 6 months into a relationship.

When you put too much importance into some one early on - you push them away... always.

See - women are part of your life - not your life. You need other thinsg in life - school, work, religion, sports, WORKING OUT, FRIENDS, FAMILY, hobbies etc.

Women want a confident guy, a fun guy, a guy who applies no pressure. A guy who is busy.

I agree with the other responses you've received. You have her friendship and that's important. Continue being her friend, see her socially, talk with her. Get to know her and show her that you care but without pressuring her or being obsessive. Eventually you just might "get her back" or you might not. Either way, you'll be no worse off than you are now and you'll have had the pleasure of her friendship.

How old are you honey?

If you REALLY love this girl.. then let her be, and don't be selfish.
Selfish Love is not the answer!
If you kind of black mail her by saying your run away from home or suicide.. that is Not the answer..

Wow that does suck, I wish you the best