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    XxDethxX Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 10, 2011, 08:46 PM
    Help With A Girl.
    All right, basically I have been interested in this girl for a long long time. She had hinted and continues to hint she is interested in me.. But does not want to get "Tied Down" again. She had recently went through a break up and my dumb *** decided to let her know how I feel before it might have been to late to let it be known again. She seems to move from one to another and.. Well I just felt like I had to. She basically said she did not know and she has been teasing me and hanging out with me more. Only now she rubs it in my face she had been sleeping around, unbiased to my sympathies and I could understand if she simply was not interested yet she continues to show up and continues to let it be known she sleeps around and ****. She even recently showed up at 9:00 p.m. To tell me she had cut herself and she is going to group now because of it.. Making it seem like she was seeking comfort. Yet again she had to mention she got laid recently and unbiased to my words so I decided to just act like a friend but she immediately left almost right after that.

    I know it all sounds stupid but I have been interested in her for so long and she leads it on or teases me, then I only get to see her if she just does not want to go home and no one else is up to crash at their house. It has been driving me crazy and I do not understand the mixed signals, I get decently depressed and I have to sit there and listen to songs that are kind of like what's going on to even remotely feel better.

    Should I wait and see or should I just try to keep her out of my mind and move on? It is a hard decision for me because like I said, I could almost say I love her.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Oct 10, 2011, 10:46 PM
    Should I wait and see or should I just try to keep her out of my mind and move on?
    Move on, she is holding your feelings for her as a weapon over your head. She needs help, so run, and keep a healthy distance between her and your feelings.

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