That's ridiculous - tell I'm to get a life.
It's not controlling it's called clingy/needy - he sounds extremely insecure.
You a way too young to be living together, let alone get married. How about getting married in 11 years?
This is not the type of person you want to marry. He needs to change big time.
Send him to:
http://www.relationships.blog-city.com
He is a major Wuss Boy if he is doing this.