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momid · Jul 9, 2007, 07:16 AM

I think my boyfriend is lying to me, he always tells me he loves me and we are going to buy a house together. He tells me he has plenty money to take on a mortgage but I think different.

phillysteakandcheese · Jul 9, 2007, 12:22 PM

If you and your boyfriend are going to buy a house together, you should know a lot about him.. including how he makes a living, and how he spends his money. His lifestyle is probably a good indicator of how quickly he burns through money.

You probably have reason to "think different" about what he says he has and what he really has. People say and promise a lot of things... Go beyond his words and take a good look at what he actually does.

talaniman · Jul 9, 2007, 01:25 PM

There has to be a reason you doubt him, so what is it??

startover22 · Jul 9, 2007, 01:28 PM

If you doubt him, do NOT buy a house with him. My good friend made this huge mistake and there were big problems down the line. They broke up 2 years later, and everything went to hell. Just stop what is happening before it gets out of hand. Remember your gut instinct.. Good luck

s_cianci · Jul 9, 2007, 08:46 PM

If you think he's lying to you, then he probably is. I'd go with the presumption that he is and proceed accordingly.

jijo · Aug 22, 2007, 03:06 AM

How long you stay with him determines your ability to know him and trust. Don't make this mistake of buying something with someone you didn't trust. Have a good second thinking.