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    Miss Rachael Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 18, 2009, 05:40 PM
    He says he loves me somedays, but some days he doesn't
    So I've been liking this guy for a long time. When we first met a few months ago, he told me that he really liked me, & then he heard some things about me that weren't true, and so then he told me that he couldn't talk to me anymore because of what he had heard. That really crushed me. We would still talk as friends, and I would always tell him that I still liked him, & that my feelings for him hadn't changed. A few weeks later he told me that he still liked me and that he wanted to start talking to me again. So we started talking and we would hang out a lot. Then out of the blue he starts acting all weird and he doesn't talk to me for a while, and it's like this for a day or two, but then the next few days, he talks to me all fine and is always hugging me and what not. My friends have also been talking to him and asking him what's up with the way he's been acting with me, and so far, he's told everyone of them the same thing, "I don't know, it's like somedays I love her soo much, but somedays I don't!"
    What does that mean. He confused me so much!
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    Oct 18, 2009, 05:51 PM
    He seems extremely confused about what he wants. Furthermore, it sounds like it's really easy to sway him. He says he found out stuff about you but didn't even bother clearing it up with you to see if it was true.

    I would say, tell him to leave you alone until he figures out what he wants. Otherwise, his confusion is just going to overflow to you and make you just as confused. That's not fair to you.
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    Oct 18, 2009, 07:04 PM

    This is not a guy who you trust your heart with. He may not mean to but he will break it.

    Since you see what's going on, protect yourself, and back off. Dating and relating should be fun, but this doesn't sound like fun to me.

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